I've got 2 tables, 1 is
Persons
Relationships
SELECT PERSONS.ID, PERSONS.NATIVE_COUNTRY,
RELATIONSHIPS.PERSON_ID, RELATIONSHIPS.RELATION FROM PERSONS
INNER JOIN RELATIONSHIPS ON RELATIONSHIPS.PERSON_ID = ID
AND RELATIONSHIPS.RELATION = 'child';
PERSONS.ID
you can try using group by:
SELECT PERSONS.ID, COUNT(*) FROM PERSONS
INNER JOIN RELATIONSHIPS ON RELATIONSHIPS.PERSON_ID = ID
AND RELATIONSHIPS.RELATION = 'child'
GROUP BY persons.id;