I have always used
Just like the & and && operator, the double Operator is a "short-circuit" operator.
if(condition1 || condition2 || condition3)
If condition1 is true, condition 2 and 3 will NOT be checked.
if(condition1 | condition2 | condition3)
This will check conditions 2 and 3, even if 1 is already true. As your conditions can be quite expensive functions, you can get a good performance boost by using them.
There is one big caveat, NullReferences or similar problems. For example:
if(class != null && class.someVar < 20)
If class is null, the if-statement will stop after "class != null" is false. If you only use &, it will try to check class.someVar and you get a nice NullReferenceException. With the Or-Operator that may not be that much of a trap as it's unlikely that you trigger something bad, but it's something to keep in mind.
No one ever uses the single & or | operators though, unless you have a design where each condition is a function that HAS the be executed. Sounds like a design smell, but sometimes (rarely) it's a clean way to do stuff. The & operator does "run these 3 functions, and if one of them returns false, execute the else block", while the | does "only run the else block if none return false" - can be useful, but as said, often it's a design smell.
There is a Second use of the | and & operator though: Bitwise Operations.