When I looked up books and stack overflow article on operator overloading I found the following:
"When an overloaded operator is a member function, this is bound to the
left-hand operand. Member operator functions have one less (explicit)
parameter than the number of operands." - Addison Wesley, C++ Primer,
So my question is since the *(dereference) operator does not have any left operand, how does it get its parameter(which is the object itself or 'this') ?
For all prefix unary operator, it operates on the operand that follows it.
As an added question would there be any difference in how the overloaded * operator is used if it is defined as a non-member function vs a member function
For the most part, no, except that non-member function can't access private member of that class and if both the member function and non-member function existed, the member function has a higher rank, see ADL
For the reliable source, you can take a look at operator overloading, or, better, section 13.5.1 [over.unary] in the standard C++:
A prefix unary operator shall be implemented by a non-static member function (9.3) with no parameters or a non-member function with one parameter. Thus, for any prefix unary operator @, @x can be interpreted as either x.operator@() or operator@(x). If both forms of the operator function have been declared, the rules in 188.8.131.52 determine which, if any, interpretation is used. See 13.5.7 for an explanation of the postfix unary operators ++ and --. 2 The unary and binary forms of the same operator are considered to have the same name. [ Note: Consequently, a unary operator can hide a binary operator from an enclosing scope, and vice versa. —end note ]
For the selection if there are both member and non-member, see 184.108.40.206 [over.match.oper]